Many Shades of Blue

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Sorry to have disappeared from the blog for a while. I haven’t been in the good mood and some of you might know that I lost my dearest cat, Nini Ho, a little while ago. For those who have never have pets might feel it is just an “animal” but I am sure for you who has pets in your lives will understand how much they can mean to us… Basically I have been in the “blue” mood so this “blue” post is probably the perfect post for me to come back to blog after two weeks.

I left Nine to move to Paris for studies in 1998 when she was only 1 yrs and ever since I have been living in Europe while she was always in Taiwan with my mum. She was more my mum’s cat than mine in a way. But same for human, I am sure there are few of them in your life that you just feel really connected. Nini was one of that to me. I was really sad at the beginning… I was sad that I can’t touch her, hold her, “speak” to her and etc anymore… But at the end, I realised that all the reasons I was sad about are for myself… But to her, she was really unwell, she could barely move, she couldn’t even eat anymore… I should be happy for her that she is free after all. And I believe that she is now healthy and happy in a different form with us. Of course I am still sad, sad for my lost, that’s it.

And thanks to Nini, I have learnt that if there are things you want to do but haven’t done yet, do! Any apology you have in your mind, say it. And walk away from the wrong people, job or situation. People aren’t going to be there forever for you and we aren’t going to there forever either. We should make the most of it. :))

Finally, I promise it is going to be a happy post later! x

 

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5 Comments

  1. June 7, 2017 / 10:02 pm

    Sorry to hear about your cat. They are, indeed, like family. My wife and I recently had to put our eldest cat to sleep in rather sudden circumstances. In the end, it was the best thing for our poor kitty, as it was for yours. We don’t want them to see them suffer, how ever much we’ll miss them.

    On happier notes, welcome back to blogging. You have a wonderful sense of style, and this blue ensemble is very lovely and summery.

  2. June 8, 2017 / 8:53 am

    I´m so sorry that you lost your cat. I know what you feel, I once lost a very deer pet, too. I like your thoughts, that it´s a relief for her.
    You dress is amazing and so summerly. I love the back very much, but the rest, too!
    xoxo Reni.

  3. June 8, 2017 / 8:56 am

    I´m very sorry that you lost your cat. But I like your thoughts that it´s a relief for her.
    Your dress is amazing. I love the back!
    xoxo Reni

  4. June 10, 2017 / 8:55 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve had pets for most of my life so I understand how sad you must be – they really are part of the family and are so much more than just animals. I hope you feel better soon and send you virtual hugs xx

    PS – your dress is beautiful! I love the fabric and open back detail.

  5. June 27, 2017 / 11:45 pm

    I’m sorry that you lost your cat, we all need a little break sometimes but I’m glad you came back because I am sooo obsessed with how you styled this dress!! I’d totally wear everything in your pictures!

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